Sometimes there is someone who truly matter.. Someone that you didn’t anticipate. That took place at that unexpected time.
Sometimes in life, you find a special acquaintance. Who change your life precisely by being part of it. Somebody who makes you laugh until you can’t stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there truly is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. And if you notice such an acquaintance, you feel happy and complete because you need not worry.
There are so many reasons to be optimistic about life. Sometimes it helps to change the way we view things. Here are just my reasons to be optimistic..
SO MUCH TO ENJOY
Look for things to enjoy, and you will realise how much we have in our lives. To be optimistic about life is that it offers so much for us to enjoy, Even we are not financially wealth. A simplicity of life is the most important above all.
SEE THE POSITIVE SIDE OF LIFE
Always look at your life, and you will see just how much you have to feel good about. It might be your family, friends, Job and anything you have. Then try look to others, and yes there’s still few people who have negative views in life don’t add yourself to them instead turn negative into positive vibes.
ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT
We been or going through one of those stages where things just aren’t going in our way, we feel we’re stuck in a certain situation we never expect. Now think – your situation can and will get better. It may involve some effort on your part but remember that when you’re down, the only way is up! You can see that being optimistic will pay off.
IT HELP TO COPE
Optimist view can help to cope tough times, being optimist you know how to handle tough stages and knows that the bad times won’t last forever and life can’t be great all the time. Difficulties will sooner or later be behind you, so look forward to more positive times ahead. Just be patient and look forward.
MAKE YOUR MAGIC REAL
Think positive thoughts and take positive steps to achieve your goals, and you can get there. Focus and make your own luck. You may not be able to use positive thinking to magic up riches or a new car, but it helps to focus on what we want and help achieve our goals. Try it for yourself, and start to believe that you can get what you want in life.
HEALTHY LIFE AND LIVE LONGER
Remember that worrying causes stress on both your body and your mind, so being positive about life has double the benefits. Your longer life will be one of quality.
Being optimist it doesn’t mean you are required to be cheerful always because Nobody can be happy all the time! But being a ‘glass half full’ person is likely to achieve a lot more than always looking on the dark side.
Deep down I am so sensitive. I am the type of person who notices everything and forgets nothing. I feel deeply, and sometimes the silliest things can affect me. I easily brought to laughter or tears, I don’t show how fragile I am, I instead show people how insightful I can be. I am good at anticipating what’s going to happen in my life. I like to over think everything and anything. I like to get to the deeper meaning of things. I don’t show to the world how unsure I am about everything. I might figuring things out, but I still confident. I always looking to make a good impression and to do the right things. Because I believe that my actions will make difference in others people’s live, no matter how large or small they are. I don’t want to show how worried and upset I am. I see lot of misery and injustice that I keep in myself. I am devoted being the best person;
My life is a puzzle, and I like playing with the pieces until they fit together. -MariaM
- I am comfortable and proud to say that I am single by choice since teenager days up to now, it is true that being single at 20s really isn’t so bad. I am not a man hater or any bad issue about men I do hope to have a relationship soon some other time or, later because every women dream to have it in life. But before I ask someone to know my whole life I want first to know myself too. I want to love myself first so that when the time will come I am ready to love someone, as much as I love myself. Being single at my age allows me to discover who I am as a person and I would not trade it for anything no matter what. Here is the list why being single isn’t bad at all:
1. YOU HAVE FREEDOM
YES! Freedom, all of us have it but people who really enjoy the most is single people., being single you can do whatever you want, you can go to any place, go to any university or colleges, you can apply a job abroad. Anything you want to choose, no worries about schedule, with out the needs of consediring someone opinions. “SINGLE IS ALWAYS THE BOSS”
2. A CHANCE TO KNOW YOURSELF MORE
This is your chance to know more about what you really want in life, in your future life. Learning who you are is like learning what you want and love to enjoy without depending to others or anyone else opinion. Because even your close friends they can’t tell you who you really are. Being single is a chance for yourself to prepare for someone in the future.
3. THE LAW OF INDEPENDENCE
Independent.. Being single you can stand on your own. You can do anything for yourself. You can take care yourself. Being single is like brave person that can face anything without depending others.
Most of the singles at the age of 20s are career motivated, and this is a good thing for you in the near future . I’m not saying that when you are in a relationship you can’t do the thing, but there’s always differences. I, myself.. Career is one of the important as a foundation being a person in a society that’s why,. while you are single just enjoy and be more enthusiastic to what career you have till the rest of your life.
5. IT LIFT UP YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE
Being a single at 20s can help to lift up or gain self confidence, it allow you to be more productive and develops your skills and your ambitions. It also allow you to be physical and emotional ease into many life changes. I know that healthy relationships can bring confidence too. but I also think that being single can do the same. Take the time to know your best in you.
6. YOUR OPTION IS OPEN
As a single, when you are at the age of 20s your taste in a man is not the same when you experienced a crush in your teenage days. At this level we are looking for a husband material, so the option is still wide, and being single you can have the time to look and choose who will love you and you will love too for the rest of your life. To accept an option it doesn’t mean go and get the perfect guy because in the reality it didn’t exist, just find the right one for you. Don’t date just to say so or pass the time. You should believe what you really love. You should consider what you really love.
Being single is happy but we need someone that will love us and inspire us. But as I said before love yourself first, know yourself so that you are capable to love someone purely. Always remember there’s no one on earth wants to be single at all. There’s always a right time and a right place for everything.
” Love is the most powerful “, there’s a man that I really like and I almost fall in love to him, but there’s a lot of reason not to like or love him. Because it is a mistakes and I know it, but why when the heart start to feel it doesn’t care even it is wrong. I’m afraid to repeat the mistakes I’ve made before, the feeling that I felt then. I know to myself that I learned from it, but why I feel the same like before. I am trying to control my feelings and trying to think first before anything else. Because as much as possible I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, I don’t want to be the reason of hatred and I don’t want to hear again the most painful words that I heard before. Sometimes I need to accept that love is not all about my own happiness, love should not be the reason to hurt others feelings just for the sake of mine.
I’m still a believer of destiny, if we are meant to be it will happen, maybe not now but it might be in the right time. Because my love story is not yet finish.
I’m just thankful that he is one of the reason why I’m happy and inspired. He knows. We both know.